Siblings

Glass Children

A “glass child” is a sibling of a child with profound disabilities, behavioral, and/or medical needs. The term comes from the idea that adults, professionals, and even extended family may unintentionally focus more on the child with special needs, making the sibling feel “looked through” or invisible. 

“Glass children” often grow into deeply compassionate people who are hard-working, resilient, and adaptable. But with this ability comes the psychological caveat of grieving the loss of a “normal” childhood.

In adulthood, this can then manifest through trauma symptoms, perfectionistic tendencies, a sense of feeling “lost,” etc.

Glass children seek validation, a sense of belonging, to know they are not alone, and, above all else, to feel seen.

ABLE Connect: Siblings

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Are you an adult with sibling(s) with disabilities or unique challenges? Would you like to join a sibling group? Led by Aaron and Janelle Wynn, SEEN (Siblings Endure, Encourage, Nuture) is a place to connect with others who get it.

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Start an ABLE Connect: SEEN siblings group at your church!

Use the SEEN Siblings Workbook by Aaron and Janelle Wynn to facilitate an 11-week group that supports siblings of all ages.

  • "I can't fully express how beneficial this group has been for me."

    —Anonymous Attendee

  • "It helped me see things differently and gave me a space where I finally felt heard and seen - something I've honestly struggled with most of my life, even now as an adult. That meant more to me than I can put into words.”

    —Anonymous Attendee

  • "“I cannot wait to see the doors God will open for me to minister to another glass sibling.”"

    —Anonymous Attendee